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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (f/22) have to figure out if I want to still know these girls or not and would hate to sound insulting
POST: Not sure if this belongs here but it's worth a try.
Backstory:
When I (f/22) went through my first real breakup 2 years ago because he needed space after a year of dating ... | Been through breakup with 2 years ago due to emotional scarring from it. Now I suffer depression and am better on anti depressants. Will girls insult me for having these memories of him? Will they accept it? Is there going to be awkwardness? | had my emotional couple breakup last 2 years and its affected me more than I thought so I may have to cut contact with some girls I've been friends with for a long time. Will it be insulting? Will it be awkward? |
SUBREDDIT: r/loseit
TITLE: SV & NSV! Keeping on keeping on.
POST: 30F, 5'6". SW: 236 GW: 150 CW: 219
I weigh myself weekly and measure myself monthly. I'd hit a plateau the last four weeks or so where I was stuck at 222. Felt like kind of a bummer, but knew it's because I haven't been as strict as I should with my d... | On my measure-in day I was hit with chest congestion/cold bug, I see an 8 inch drop in clothes size since day one, I feel so much lighter! | In the last 4 weeks or so, I haven't been following my diet as strictly as I should and I got a size/weight decrease of 8 inches. Do you have any experience with this or similar weight losses? How have you kept on with such a small difference? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [19F] with my friend [19M] 10 months, Insecurities - Show or Tell?
POST: What are your stories about insecurities you've had in past relationships? How have you dealt with them, particularly the ones that you can't hide?
I'm not currently in a relationship, but recently I've real... | Recently realized that someone may like me, but I have acne scars that make it hard for me to hide my sexuality. Do you have any experience with similar situations and how have you dealt with it? | Recently realized that someone I LIKED likes me physically, but has scarring that makes it hard for me to show off my "perfect body". Do you have any stories about insecurities that werehes out perfectly fine in other relationships? |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Prioritize student debt or saving for down payment?
POST: I have $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, I will pay off $11k of the... | $25k in student debt. One private loan at 9.5% (highest priority obviously) and nine others federal between 3.4% and 6.8%. Minimum payment per month total is $301.16. Over the next 9 months, will focus on student debt payoff or saving for down payment. | $25k in student debt, 9 private loans with 3.4% to 6.8% interest rate, and what my realistic priorities are for savings and debt consolidation. I'm not sure how best to allocate my money. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My[25m] girlfriend [24f] is only nice and pleasant when I'm aloof and distant. (9 months)
POST: Throwaway
I noticed the more I'm cold and distant towards my girlfriend, the more pleasant she becomes. She'll come over and clean my apartment, do laundry, dishes and cook for me, even a... | noticed more detached/nicer/happier girlfriend behavior when I'm aloof, distant, and downright nasty towards her. I'm trying to figure out what's the best course of action here. Do I keep the detached/nicer/happier girl behavior or do I change my default setting to be kind and nice toward my girlfriend? | In my "cold and distant" girlfriendgivesneglivenespcrattyneatjobperformancebybeingcheerfulandcontent. Sheunlikebeingjealousandbelligerent, I'mbetteroffremainingaloof. How do I keep her happy and content while I switch to my default setting of being cheerful and content with her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me 28 F with guy I'm dating 30 M - 1 month, Is it okay to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy?
POST: I have been dating this guy for 1 month now and everything was great until last Sunday when I noticed he wasn't responding to my text with the same flirty, cute, enthusiasti... | Dating guy for month and noticed he wouldn't really engage with way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way way... | I have been dating guy for month and noticed recently his communication has changed and he no longer initiates conversation after movie or talks anymore but just hangs out. Is it ok to ask if everything is okay or am I being pushy? I'm worried I might be losing self-esteem due to this. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Is it weird that this turned me off from my gf?
POST: The other day my girlfriend(23 years old) and myself(22 years old) were talking and she revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short (5'7"-5'8"). She is only about 5'5". Now she loves me a lot and thinks... | My gf once revealed to me that she almost didn't date me because I was too short. Now she loves me and thinks I am the best thing to ever happen to her. But for some reason, learning about this shallow shallow thing association really turned me off. | After hearing that my girlfriend(23 years old) reveals to me she almost didn't date/first base other physical characteristics on me because of it. Is it weird that I am turned off by this shallow shallow view of human characteristics? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (27/F) am obnoxiously paranoid after a gynecological health scare. How do I explain my ridiculous hormonal-ness to my boyfriend (32/M)? (X-posted to /r/AskWomen)
POST: Last month, I started getting really hormonal and feeling downright crazy (becoming paranoid about my awesome boyf... | had my gyno diagnose that I was due to have an IUD removed, which was the cause of my hormonal imbalance. She scheduled a hysteroscopy and aspiration of a large mass next day. Feeling horribly hormonal and knowing it will eventually go away, but how to explain my irrationality to my partner? | My obnoxiously hormonal wobble leads me to have hysteroscopy-type mass removal procedures that night that cause all sorts of anxiety and upset. How can I explain to my boyfriend that I'm not trying to make excuses but just being completely and totally irrational at the time? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Advice givers of this subreddit please help me (18m) out. Please and thank you:)
POST: So recently I listened to the song Feel Again by OneRepublic. GREAT SONG. But it got me thinking: "is my heart numb? Am I a lonely soul?" All my friends tell me I am basically Ted Mosby (for those ... | recently listened to the great One Republic song feel again and it got me thinking am I lonely and am I head over heels for one but I don't know what to do now. Can someone help? | Recently listened to the amazing One Republic song Feel Again my heart starts to numb I want a relationship but I feel like its one of those things that you gotta take the leap and is this something I should look into before I go to college. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20/F] having trouble with boyfriend [23/m] of 2.5 years sex drive
POST: My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are very sexually compatible.
Although, his sex drive is crazy high compared to mine. It really depends on the time of month for me [hormones], sometimes I'll ... | My boyfriend's sex drive is really high and I have a hard time meeting his sexual needs sometimes, and I want to know if there are any strategies to approach his sexual desires without feeling like he's being rejected by me. | my boyfriend's sex drive is super high compared to mine and sometimes when we cuddle he is almost ready to come on to me we are just too much for me. I want to know if there is a way to approach his sexual needs without him feeling rejected. I want us both to be happy. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm just really tired right now...
POST: I just discovered this subreddit and I am glad I did because I am about to be at the breaking point.
I am about to move out of my house with my boyfriend and into an apartment in about a week. I've been extremely stressed out. I am losing sleep a... | I'm about to leave my house with boyfriend and move into an apartment and am worried about living situation-if things don't change I'm going to go crazy. I'm scared. I'm tired. What gives? | Been extremely stressed out and have become upset that if I don't want to move out my current situation may make it hard and if I'm not ready to move out I need to know if I can count on having enough money and what I will be like living there. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: How to deal with questioning everything?
POST: 23/f here and SO is 26/m. Together for 1.5 yrs and living together for 5 months.
My sister just recently got married and I can't tell if the thoughts I am having are because I'm imaging their relationship to be something it isn't ... | SO and SO's relationship is supposed to look all organized, pretty happy and loveable, but I'm having | SO and my sister reside LTR for 5 months. Sis got married and they don't exactly have any |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [ 20/F] with my bf [ 20/M] of 3 years. I've found myself attracted to someone else. Need advice on how to overcome.
POST: So I have been in what I consider a serious relationship for a few years now. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs, but things have been great the... | I have a serious boyfriend who has noticed I'm attracted to other men, and I'm having a tough time reconciling the fact that I love my boyfriend with the | Have been dating like long enough that I've developed feelings for someone else, and I find myself imagining being with this other guy. I want to know how to overcome this |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21M] with my GF [19F] of 2,5 years. She wants to pay me for helping her with her accounting studies, but I don't want her to
POST: Hello fellow redditors,
we've been together for 2,5 years and everything is more than perfect :)
She is sitting here with me and we will both prov... | GF is having some accounting problems and is looking for some outside help. I would like to pay her for some tutoring/consulting services provided to help her with her learning. She also mentioned | my GF (student / business administration) asks if I could help her with some tutoring if she pays me for it, won't be that stressful and would make me feel good. I tell her |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: I think I'm trapped in nasty triangle and don't know how to proceed, some advice would be really appreciated.
POST: I (male, 19) met this girl at collge (19 too) a couple of months ago. At the moment I met her, nothing really special happened between us happened, we just chatted a bi... | I had an early friendship with another colllege mate now liked from girl before I knew her, in my opinion her should also like my friend. However, I'm not certain, and I don't want to jeopardize any of my friends interests. Should I proceed? | I was connected with earlier girl at college, later reconnected with friend A. While we weren't officially meant as friends (I hadn't seen his face for months before she reconnected with him), we clicked, seemed to share interests, liked talking etc. And yet something seems fishy. Friend A has liked her before. What d... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [M20] met a girl [F20] who i really like while backpacking europe and i dont know what to do.
POST: I met her initially in berlin, where I only got to spend a day with her. I instantly knew there was something between us, I didnt know what but we just clicked strait away. I would h... | We hit it off while backpacking in berlin/london together and we stayed together another 3+ months. I now love her and im planning to spend the next 10+ traveling with her next year. I dont know what to do. | Met with love while backpacking in berlin, london and we spend another 10 days together. I havent been more excited for anything in my life. Im having a hard time deciding whether or not to just end the relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [HELP] Not sure how to deal with new people/dogs and my big ole pup
POST: I have a three year old Dober/Pit mix named Romulus ("Rome" for short). He's about 105lbs and for the most part a good guy. I live with 3 other dogs: a 10 year old labrador, a 2 year old French Bulldog and a 8 year old ... | my 3 year old Dober/Pit mix has gotten | have new dog (Rome) that we love as best |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [16 M] think one of my friends [17 F] is self-harming. What should I do?
POST: I was talking to two of my friends at school yesterday - we'll call them Mary and Emma. Emma is a good friend of mine and one of Mary's best friends. Mary and I aren't particularly close, but we still ta... | I was talking to two of my friend's - Mary and Emma - with apparently normal conversations and all of a sudden noticed a few scars across her wrist. I don't know what's going on, and I don't know what else Emma said, but I'm pretty sure she meant that Mary would be fine if she just doesn't talk about these scars anymo... | My 16 M's noticed some scars on the skin across one of my friend's wrist when we were chatting yesterday. She said it was a joke. Later on she left to go to talk privately. I asked her if she was alright and she seemed annoyed/offended/whatever with the joke. She said some of the scars might mean she hurts herself. I ... |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: [GA] My ex is in possession of illegal pictures of me and won't delete them
POST: I originally posted in /r/relationships, but I was told to also post here.
So, I'm 16/F, and I was dating my ex for two years (I was 14 when he was 17, now I'm 16 and he's 19). During that time he was v... | My sexual abusive ex has some pics of me when we were together that contained explicit photos, and now he won't delete them even though I've asked and I've threatened him. What do I do? | My ex has been granted possession of explicit photos of me while also telling me he still has my overtwo year long relationship dating history. I'm concerned he may be using them and I have no proof, how can I bring this to the attention of any authority? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My (F27) ex-FWB (M26) lied about being single; he's married. Need help with rational response.
POST: I used the reddit search function and couldn't find this question.
We met 6 years ago, FWB off and on for about 3 years. We live (now) in different states. We'd travel periodically ... | used FWB to sext off and on for several years, we'd see one another often, we slept together, and got sexting/texting/having sex. His wife claims he's single, he's been married 2 years. Is there any good reason for telling him I know he cheated? | ex WBO intermittent FWB had long history of swearing that he's single, but gf cross checking proves otherwise. Now I know he's married. Am I justified in being mad and want an objective, rational opinion? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Has anyone ever gone batshit crazy before, and how did you patch your life back after that?
POST: *First time posting on Reddit. Been lurking for awhile and thought this a much merry place to be.*
For context, I have been suffering from depression for the last few years. And as a reacti... | Crazily going batshiat | First time posting on Reddit, started |
SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice
TITLE: Contacting my biological father, who doesnt know I exist because of falsified DNA test [Washington]
POST: I'm going to try to keep this short so it doesn't drag long into a soap opera.
When my Mom [22 F at the time] got pregnant with her boyfriend at the time [24 M], aka my Dad, she d... | My mom used a slightly different kid in court for DNA testing vs current country kid when I turned 18. I found the other side of my family through the DNA test and now am unsure how | My mom got a retraining order against my biological father who wanted custody over me which he did not work and harassed her as he did not care about meeting our needs. I turned 18 |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] have been talking to/seeing [18F] friend for about 3 months and have no idea what I'm doing.
POST: So basically I met a girl in the beginning of the semester during our orientation week. She caught my eye the first day and we ended up talking on a bus ride somewhere and clic... | Met girl during orientation week had the one-sided long text conversations and hungout with her weekly. As you can tell I'm really open to her and feel she's the one but have no clue as to what I'm doing. Any input would be great. | Met girl on campus have been talking regularly for a while now. We even went to lunch once during orientation week and we've hung out a few times. I really like her and I want to know how we connect, but in the past 3 months I haven't felt romantically attached to anyone before. No one really knows me well enough.... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [23F] continually feel unwelcome around my boyfriend's [22M] Dad's side of the family.
POST: So my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, and for the first 2, things were pretty great. I felt welcomed and loved by everyone in his families (his parents are div... | my bf's from his father's side of the family has been really rejecting and hostile towards | My boyfriend's/and our relationship's DB front/side comes under attack from his/his |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 F] just confronted my Borderline mother [54 F] about all the things she has done to ruin my life up until now...
POST: I had been advised by my psychologist not to contact her due to the negative effect she was having on my personal life and mental health (I myself have problem... | Borderline mother has been sexually and emotionally neglecting me, abusing others in my family, and conditioning me to feel extreme guilt if I speak up about her behaviour. How have you coped/ coped at all with the guilt? | Borderline mother has been relentlessly harassing me with all sorts of horrible things including interfering and endangering the relationship with my husband etc. I tried confronting her today about it (she has denied all the things I have said to her several times already) and I still feel guilty for having the inner... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: [Update] I [17 M] am crazy about this this girl [17 F] and need advice on how to proceed.
POST: My previous post can be seen here:
We have remained in touch since I originally posted this. She has since broken up with this guy [17/18 M] from Alberta, apparently due to what I unders... | My twice meeting lovely girl had gone through a pretty unhealthy situation during the day in which we had a nice meeting, and another meeting close to the date which went much better. I'm really happy and looking forward to meeting her again. | My previous relationship-oriented/depression-ridden post brought us one great date/meeting, then later THAT meeting led to the actual day together. I'm both (sadly) in a horrible mental health state but it's been a good |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28m] am afraid to commit to a girl [26f] I really like because of my lack of relationship/dating experience. And the fact that she is ugly.
POST: I have been dating this girl for a few months now and I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. At first I did not really see this as anything ... | I have been dating girl for a few months and I find myself afraid to commit to dating a girl because of my | While dating that has seen me mature considerably, look past my uglier appearance and think I would grow old happily with |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How to convince my very conscious parents to allow me to go on a trip with my best friend
POST: My best friend asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer for a few days, but my parents are pretty strict. My whole life, my parents have most of the time said no to me hanging out w... | My bestfriend has asked me to go to Montreal with her this summer but has strict parents who won't let me do anything fun or go out. What is the best way for me to convince them for me to go? | My very sensible and experienced 19 year old lets me my best friend ask me to go to Montreal this summer with her, but my parents are pretty stong. What's the best way for me to convince them for me to go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [23M] GF [22F] is a bit too active on my Instagram for my comfort level.
POST: We've been together a few months now and things are going swell. We're some 150 miles apart (she works, I'm in grad school). We see each other every or every other weekend depending on how busy we are a... | GF on social media sometimes posts saucy or flirtatious comments but not everyone I care about advertises with personal stuff. How can I tell without sounding like an asshole? | GF is on IG watchfully browsing other people's lives but some of her comments are saucy and flirtatious but I don't know how to tell her without sounding like an asshole. I don't care enough to share my personal life to her but she's browsing other people's stuff online and one thing leads to another and she posts sau... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I [25/F] in the wrong for being incredibly upset that my LDR boyfriend [32] hasn't even texted me today?
POST: He texted me last night at 1 am while he was drinking with his friends saying "Happy Valentine's Day." I thought it was sweet he was thinking of me with his friends.
... | LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me much recently and today I waited all day to see how long it takes him to text me before initiating any contact. Am I wrong to be upset that I haven't been given any notice that he's even online today? | LDR boyfriend hasn't texted me much recently and yesterday I initiated a contact him to see how long it takes him to text me. He usually starts texting me around 7 pm to 9 pm. I'm upset that I haven't even received a single notice that he's even alive today today. Do I have a leg to stand on when I stay I'm upset? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice
TITLE: [24/f] Is it time to ask pseudo-fwb [27/m] the "what are we" question?
POST: We first met about a year ago - no common friends of any kind - and first went out this April. I got really loose on the first date and may or may not have said that i'm not looking for anything seriou... | We first interacted with each other as DATEBOY BOYS BOYS BOYS BOY BOYS BOYS BOY BOY BOYS BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY BO | We met very briefly around fwbo doing stuff 16 months ago and sex since then. Now sleepover seems more frequent and i don't know if its time to bring up the 'what are we' question. How should i go about it? As far as myself is concerned. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [23 F], my SO [24 M] of a year, I want to break up but I have no place to go.
POST: So I have been dating my boyfriend over a year. Let's call him Austin. I moved in with Austin's family because my parents out of state and I decided to take some time off from the college where we... | I moved from being an under-appreciative and neglectful boyfriend to being friendless, jobless and uncleanly without an intense relationship that provides security. How can I break up with this relationship and move forward? | I have been dating my SO over a year and we have some differences but overall we complement each other. I moved away from my overbearing family in the name of independence and developed my own career. I want a fresh start and I want a relationship; SO too. I don't want to go back to my crazy family's |
SUBREDDIT: r/running
TITLE: Blood blisters and weird sized feet
POST: Hey runnit, I'm training for my second half marathon in October, and I've got a concern: I've developed some decent blood blisters on the middle toes of both my feet as well as a doozy on the big toe of my left foot. My right foot has normal bliste... | Blood blisters and huge toes on both sides of my foot, and I have small misshapen feet. Is there anything I can do to reduce the blistering and make my feet fit better? | blood blisters on the toes as well as a big toe doozy on my left, doesn't bother running, but hurts when I walk and stands afterwards. Is there anything I can do to keep them from happenning? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my lube in the shower
POST: So I'm sitting in the living room with my then GF not long ago and my roommate (Carl with the slicked back hair) comes in from the bathroom to ask me where the little black bottle in the shower went. Confused, I looked back at him and told him I ... | Roommate brought little black bottle in shower which kept my hair super-soaked all day, looked like it came from your regular shampoo bottle, didn't come from your lube bottle, and I still have no idea where it went. | roommate keeps lube bottle in shower apparently it was the GFLY conditioner that made my hair super shiney all day, and I have no clue where to look for the little bottle to which he referred |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My mom [53F] keeps trying to reunite me [23F] and my estranged sister [19F] and it's making me miserable.
POST: "Estranged" isn't really the right word though. We have never had a relationship of any kind. We have hated each other since the moment she was born. Not once in the past d... | My mom constantly tries to re-create a relationship with estranged sister that will magically improve my life and make my relationship with estranged sister better. I hate it and want nothing to do with it. She is ruining my nice happy life. | My mother-adverse estranged sister is all time fighting over my relationship status with me, and ruining the time I have with my mom. What do I do to convince her? |
SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice
TITLE: Is it a date? Or just as friends? M(18) F(17)
POST: So, I've know this girl a while through other friends and she's been at gatherings I've been to. The other day at a party I finally plucked up the courage to talk to her properly (not just the usual "hi how are you" stuff) and we g... | I've known a girl for a while through other social media sources and she mentioned that she liked my friend's wingwoman which set me on the path to talking to her. Now I asked her if she would like to go to see my wingwoman film with me and say hi beforehand which she said it would be "really nice". Is it a date? Or j... | I knew, girl I like knows, another friend of mine told her some things about a really douchy guy that would make her think he's not all that great, is that something my SO would look a bit more interested in? I don't know if that's a real date or just as friends. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: F20 broken up with by M20. 2 years. First day. I can't enjoy food, I'm afraid to sleep. My heart hurts.i want to connect to others that feel this way.
POST: The future was so bright, we were going to live together. We never fought. I tried so hard to make him happy. We talked through... | The future was so bright we were going to live together. He changed his mind last kiss and said he couldn't love me anymore. I feel lonely, heartbroken and want to connect to others who's hearts are hurting like mine. | F20 LTR Brokeup. Suddenly he turned from loving to hating. He hid his feelings from me and now I feel lonely, heartbroken. Can't sleep. Want to connect to others who's hearts are hurting like mine. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Should me [f]irst relationship be long distance?
POST: Hi all!
Backstory: I just recently came out of my "ugly duckling with extreme social anxiety" phase I have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend (am also a "supervirgin") or many friends.I have really come out of my shell these past ... | I recently moved and am going to transfer schools 4 hours away so I cannot see boyfriend long-distance due to class schedule and don't know what to do! Would love any advice! | I recently came out of ugliness duckling status and have been dating this guy who really cares about me and is interested in dating outside of school hours. He is also from another country so long hours is not an issue. Yet. I am also worried that going long distance will make me less social and less confident in dati... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [27 M] met an amazing girl [29 F], but my superficial prejudices could screw it up.
POST: I went on an online date with an amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and we just had chemistry. I've been on many online dates, and the awkward silence during certain bits of the date is just pa... | online dating with the fantastic gal, we clicked chemistry, had a great night with no sexiness issues, and we could talk even though she was much heavier than I thought. Now I'm conflicted, and I want to see if I can get over my superficial prejudices before she leaves clothes on. | Online dating with an awesome girl went well, but she was WELL endowed with much more bodyfat which made it hard for me to get the attraction she arouses, and I hate that superficiality could screw anything up for me |
SUBREDDIT: r/needadvice
TITLE: Much needed advice for adopted Russian prodigy!
POST: My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute. She was born with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome and is missing her arms from the elbows down. My sister is now 18 years old, a senior in high s... | My family adopted an 8 year old girl with disabilities who's mother was an alcoholic prostitute and she has no social skills. I want to help her with her social skills and communicating with strangers to help prepare her for college, however, I don't know where to start | My family adopted an Russian girl (with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome) who's social skills are limited (not knowing how to interact with the general public) and I want to help her prepare for college but I don't know where to start. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [15 F] don't want my boyfriend [16 M] to think I'm cheating on him
POST: We've been together for about a year and I've made a new male friend (lets call him John) recently. Most of my friends are guys, so my boyfriend has gotten accustomed to it as far as I know. However, I spend a... | my recent developing male friendship gets my boyfriend to have suspecting eye every time, and I don't know how or if to handle the situation. I know he loves me and trusts me, but I don't want to betray his good faith. | I spend a lot of time with a support male friend of my boyfriend's, and I need time for both of them. My boyfriend has gotten used to it, so I don't see anyone much outside of work, but I want him to have time for John too. I want to be there for him, but I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm cheating on my boyfriend... |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Reddit, what makes you insanely mad?
POST: Something that makes me mad happened today. I'll start by saying I respect when people can be straight up with me, i.e. if they don't like me, and they tell me, I respect that. So, what happened: A while back I assisted a friend in making a shor... | A long time friend of mine recently asked me to edit their work. I return the favour, apology everything else. Is there some sort of forbidden magic you're insanely mad at? | assisting with the friend-made film made me dislike work previously done by accepting it, apologizing for it as just work, wanting to ruin future work, and being mad with myself. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18M] with my girlfriend [18F] of 1 year, she currently has a boy who 'likes' her sleeping in the same room as her tonight
POST: My girlfriend spent the day with her long time friend (he has asked her out and tried to have sex with her before) which I initially had no problems wit... | my girlfriend has friend who likes to sleep in the same room as her and messaged me about him doing anything tonight. I'm worried it's a relationship issue and I don't want to be controlling. I'm also insecure, but I don't really know what to do. | my girlfriend has friend who likes her messing around with when sleeping in the same room as her. I'm now worried if they did anything with each other that it could be considered sexual. I don't know what to do. I'm worried that I'm being unreasonable. |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Wanting to go to an out of area school for 6 months. How would you pull it off?
POST: I'm wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture making and design school. The best part is is that it is ran by a community college so the fees will not be insane.
This school would be an inves... | Wanting to go to a very prestigious furniture designing and woodworking school. The school will be an intense 3-6 month investment. I have a job but could possibly lose it due to my quest for school. | I'm an 18 year old college student who could qualify for an investment based furniture making school that would be about an hour's drive from my current job. How would I roll this dream out? Start in June/July. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: What are some good motorcycles for a beginner?
POST: Hey guys,
I'm in the process of getting my M1 - just passed the safety course and waiting for my paperwork to take the written test at the DMV.
That being said, I'm pumped up to buy my first bike and start endangering you all on the ... | In process of riding through safety course, looking for first bike that will allow me to get from point A to B without breaking my neck. What bikes do you really think are good? | In process of buying my first motorcycle; I'm looking to get a great 250/light cruiser bike, but I also want one that won't break my neck when learning the motorcycle driving skills. What are some good bikes? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [21 M] was seeing a girl [21 F] a few months back, stopped meeting after a few dates but recently saw her again and I want to try it again.
POST: So I was seeing this girl a few months back and everything was going great. Then came the winter holidays and didn't really talk to her ... | Been seeing gothic girl-friend-class that drifted off after Christmas-fest but recently saw her again and I want to rekindle the flame and don't know how she'll react. | Been seeing girl fine for a while recently and didn't hang out but we both fell for others during the holidays and now we both forgot about her. I want to try rekindling the flame but I'm not sure how she'll react. Not sure whether to go for the spark but not sure whether to stop fancying her in the meantime. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Unmotivated At Work: The Cubicle Cliché
POST: This is me browsing reddit at work again, as most of us do. This is, and has always been common practice to all of us dweller of the cube farms. I'm the stereotypical guy who works for a big corporation that doesn't give a shit about you, in ... | I have had a lack of motivation at work, been given copy paste tasks and have seen my reporting become stale. Needs some outside help asking for ideas. | i work my 9-5 job from a cube-like office which is boring, task oriented, and boring in the sense of specific and repetitive. I feel like i will eventually be un-motivated to care because of this. What are some things you guys do to help yourselves through the day, to feel like you contribute? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Girlfriend [22] might be hiding something and my friend is worried about me [22]. (How) should I bring this up with her?
POST: My girlfriend (A) and I have been "officially" dating for about a month now. Out of the blue, I get a call from an old friend (B) who is pretty close to her.... | Some old friend from girl's past has been keeping things from our current relationship that have possibly happened in the past four months. She's worried about me getting hurt one day. should I mention it to my girlfriend (A)? | My girlfriend (A) and I have Been dating officially for a month now, we've got some old friend (B) worried about me getting some potentially hidden stuff that may be going on underneath the dating relationship. What do? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My girlfriend [25F] might get a job in another city and I [26M] am thinking to follow her
POST: Hello r/relationships,
I will try to be short. My girlfriend [25F] has an interview for a job in another city, let's called it C because it is the third city in our equation. I [26M] am f... | my girlfriend might get a job in another city and I am looking to follow her. What is your opinion on that? How do I lose her while following? | Girlfriend might get job in city C and move there. I want to follow her but I have no opportunity to move jobs in my field. What is your opinion? (for my own mental and physical health) |
SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance
TITLE: Should we adjust our high student loan repayments while my wife stays home with the kids?
POST: My wife and I both have pretty large amounts of student loans ($72,000 for my PhD, $83,000 for her 2 Master's), which are all Federal Direct Stafford Loans. The payments on these loans ... | My large student loan payments will cut our income down drastically while my wife stays at home with our first child when she could be working. Is it a good idea to do the graduated payments at the same | My wife has large student loan payments but only has income to support her from working which will shorten her working career and leave us with very limited options for reducing the loan payments, or adjusting the payments once she |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: How do I [19F] get my boyfriend [21M] of 4 months to feel more attractive?
POST: (Throwaway account)
My boyfriend and I have been official for almost 4 months, but have been close friends for the past year (it was a pretty seamless friends -> friends with benefits -> relationship tr... | My boyfriend is very attractive and many other people have agreed with me that he is good-looking, but he doesn't see himself as very attractive as others rate him. I'm wondering if there's anything else I could do or say to help make him feel better about being himself physically. | My boyfriend appears to find other people's looks pretty attractive, yet doesn't necessarily agree that he IS all that good looking. He's really young and handsome, so I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to help him see himself as attractive as other attractive people do. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [21/M] girlfriend [21/F] constantly looks through my phone while I'm asleep. Time to end it?
POST: So my girlfriend and I have been getting along great our entire relationship. My family loves her, her family loves me, and we usually got along great.
However, she always goes thro... | My girlfriend (for a year and a half) goes through my phone while I am asleep, has looked through my snapchat history, twitter favorites, texts, Facebook messages, | My girlfriend is constantly looking through my phone while I am asleep. She accused me of trying to hide something from her one time when I said I forgot my password to my snap |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [17 M] don't know how to start a relationship with a girl [16 F]
POST: Well, a little context first, I've been in love/attracted plenty of times over my life, but never I've been able to be with a girl. I've been rejecter every time.
This time the girl (let's call her Caterine) I ... | took girl interest 6 months ago and started to like her but have taken long time to know her and am not gayzoned So I'm kinda friendzoned and may express my feelings towards her now. Don't know how to start a relationship with | Been in love with some long time non meet girl, had some interest in her but couldn't show my long hard time in liking her until now, now find her mildly attractive but can't bear the waiting any longer.. got a crush now on |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I feel like my dad is cheating me out of a large amount of money. What do?
POST: I'm currently 17. I lived with my dad my entire life. My mom died in 2009 and I began receiving social security checks every month for about $600. In November (2010) part of our house burnt down and we got a... | My dad is not poor, shops at expensive places, and does not pay for me to have any sort of | 17 years old live with my dad who gets social security and insurance checks. He says the only part of my |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Does writing a few papers on a band make you "obsessed"?
POST: So far in my college career I have taken all of my humanities courses on the subject of music (they tend to interest me more than others). There are always research topics that we are allowed to choose. During my first semest... | I recently wrote a great deal of research on a band on which I have become well-known as the band expert, and I would like to know if writing two papers on my band makes me "obsessed" | I have done research for all of my humanities classes on the topic of a band, I have a great relationship with both the teacher and the college that I am attending, and I think I am personally obsessed with the band I am studying for my classes. Is this an obsession? |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: Acquired cat! Now a question..
POST: So, I just got a lovely little cat named Luna. She's about a year, a year and a half and pretty tiny. I live in an apartment located on the 5th floor of my building. My apartment doesn't have AC (I'm in NYC) and I usually like to leave the windows open for... | Got a tiny, year-old, year-and-half old cat; she slipped through child locks in NYC and now she's walking outside with no AC- let alone the window being open, what do? | got a tiny, year old, AC-starved looking cat; the windows in my apartment lack sealing, so can my cat manage to slip through; should I leave them open? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU By befriending a cannibal in grade 4-5.
POST: As usual this didn't happen today, it actually happened around 10 years ago when I was in grade 4 or 5.
I was not the most popular kid in school back in the day, probably starting from around grade 2 nobody liked me and my friends. It did su... | was seated next to a cannibal boytype who kept nibbling on my arm while class was in progress, didn't say a word but ate a bloody chunk out of my arm. | As a class 4-5th grader I would pegne stranger in school and we would chat, things eventually go sour and I bite the other. He said he got hungry. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [20m] just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf [19F]. I am very emotional, she wasnt.
POST: I am far from the stereotypical macho, no emotions, no mushy stuff guy. I love romance, I love to be cute, and express my love in various ways. She is far from the stereotypical m... | I recently broke up with my gf who was far from the stereotypical emotional mushy, sexy hot stuff guy. She was far from the stereotypical mushy, emotional, lovey dovey girl. She never spoke about her feelings, she never told me whats wrong and she never told me she loved me without me having to say it first. Guy I was... | I just got out of an 8 month relationship with my gf that was emotionally dull, floaty, never spoke about her feelings or told me she loved me without me saying it first. My question is are girls generally emotional and do you like to talk about emotions with your partner? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [18 M] with my Girlfriend [16 F] (4 months) - I'm constantly paranoid i'm screwing up my relationship and it's having bad effects on me
POST: Let me preface this by saying I love my girlfriend very much, and most of this is probably my fault.
Alot of time whenever I'm talking to/... | My semi-long term relationship was plagued with constant paranoia and insecurity i'm having an effect on it and don't know if to continue or break up. | My semi-long term relationship is constantly making me wonder if i'm romantically/relationship-focused incorrectly when she's reacting very oddly to me. I don't know what to do to fix this issue in my relationship. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Girl had nip slip in photo, Blamed on me.
POST: I was with friends and we were going through pictures on facebook when we came across this photo from this years prom where a girl has a nip slip. It is barely visable, but we noticed it. (I should have reported the picture for nudity, but ... | girl in my school nip slip photo showed everyone and told kid, what should i do now, throw the kid under the bus, leave it alone? | had nip slip in facebook photo which was noticed work on yearbook and prom committee mix up, some people then found out. what should i do? and should i just let it go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Pride only hurts, it never helps.
POST: Me 26 Her 28
Having a tough time on my own with this one. I'm realizing how much my pride and ego are controlling a recent incident and if they're good indicators on wether I should take my gf back or not.
My girlfriend and I have bee... | In relationship longstanding, had GF gone on trip last month and we reconnected that day and we clicked great, now she slept with some other guy, I'm hurt over and angry, and don't know what to do. | my gf left on a Trolltrip last month which resulted in us breaking up, she slept with someone while on the trip, I forgive and forget, want to forgive and forget, image of her sex life keeps eating away at my mind, any thoughts of her live being on in my future don't compute. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: confused.
POST: I am not biased towards religion nor am I biased for or against atheism. I try not judge people by their personal beliefs because I know we are all different, either through evolution or through some supreme being. It doesn't matter to me if you think that God created us,... | I browse Reddit and on /r/atheism there is an atheist sub, which demands the most attention. I would like to see if anyone lurking believes in being kind, generous, caring, and all those "good" things and | I browse /r/atheism and notice a group of followers demanding the most attention and more tolerance of everyone. Is anyone out there who believes this, or is the atheism subreddit simply another religion? |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by Letting my Brothers onto an Social Experiment I was Planning.
POST: Not so recently, my grandma was put into a personal care home due to a broken hip and both of her daughters just not having the time to be able to care for her as she needs to be. More recently, the pitbull that the c... | After deciding to use the pitbull shy as a way to figure out how many bronies in my area, outside of high school and college, by how many prospective adopters catch on to the name, I let them onto an Amnesia custom story for an animated pony from the Justine DLC of Amnesia. | made an interactive social experiment with a pitbull by renaming it and suspecting bronies based on connection to Amnesia pony. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: There is a 80% chance I (20F) can't have children, but my boyfriend (24M) will not stop bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do.
POST: I found out recently that I have a medical condition that makes it very difficult for me to conceive, and very, very risky ... | My condition (medical/risky pregnancy) makes it very difficult for me to become pregnant, and very risky for me to try to have children. My boyfriend (24M) keeps bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I don't know what to do. | I have medical conditions that make it extremely unlikely for me to be pregnant, my boyfriend (24M) will not back down bringing up wanting to have his own kids. I am very hurt because he brings it up all the time, but I can't help but feel sad that he thinks I will not be able to be a mom. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [24 M] ended a very new relationship with a long time friend [24 F] because we seemed to want different things out of our relationship. She seemed to agree when I brought it up to her, but now I am not sure if I did the right thing.
POST: So I had met this girl when I started this ... | Met new girl friend through my job after dating for a while. She started to grow distant like no one had ever done to me before. I confronted her about it, and she agreed that we just couldn | Former FRIEND dated while we started our relationship. She started to grow distant, as i didn't really like being the "ace up some ones sleeve". I confronted her and now after some time has |
SUBREDDIT: r/cats
TITLE: really need your help with my cat, Never seen him act like this
POST: So my brother comes over my house a lot and he is really scared of my cat, my cat is 2 and has always been a sweet heart so I never de-clawed him but today well I was working on my computer the my brother came home I didnt ... | My brother comes over my house alot and my cat is super scared and won't stop screaming when we try to coax him to come out, should I let him out when he growsls and bites or should I just get rid of him? | My brother comes over lots and the cat at my house scares the hell out of him so we didnt take any action to keep the cat but what do I know once he growls at me that im pretty sure I wont "take it easy" and let him out. He is locked up making growling noises. Should I let the cat out and what got over him? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [22F] love my boyfriend [24M] dearly, but I don't want to move in with him...
POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years.
Our relationship for the most part has been pretty good. We get along well in nearly every capacity - life plans, sex, etc. I'm very happy with h... | I love my boyfriend dearly, we get along well, but I don't want to live with him. I may eventually move in my parents. Do you think this is a sign of a bigger issue? What should I say to my boyfriend? | my relationship with good material base has impeded me from wanting to move in with my BOB, all signs are pointing to a bigger issue. Do you think it is a deal breaker and do you guys think I should back out? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [21 M] with my GF [23 F] 6 months, girlfriend talks to exes and gets mad when I talk to girls
POST: So my GF is my first sexual partner, my GF has had many.
She talks to guys from her past. She talks weekly to 2 exes, which I'm fine with, but we recently got into a big fight, bec... | GF has talked to old school sexual conquests from her past in group chats, and tries to control who I talk to | GF has had sexual partners from past, talks to them in group chats, having ulterior motives of trying to get them |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: Help, i feel like my step mom is being very unfair...
POST: So, lets start off by saying im a freshman, so, yes, im young, but i still need help. Last night i was watching Netflix in bed (It was about 12) and my stepmom texted me and told me to turn it down, so i put in headphones, problem... | My stepmom at parental controls devices lets me watch netflix past the time limit, where as everyone else gets the same time block settings. I would like some advice on what i could do without getting caught. | My step mom said she would restrict me from watching netflix past 10 if i bypass parental controls, im able to log in to modem and do to, what i naturally do is look up ways to bypass the system. what advice is out there if i do do it? and if i do get caught, is it worth the punishment. |
SUBREDDIT: r/dogs
TITLE: [discussion] Dog very injured and I'm emotionally terrified of what might happen
POST: So my dog turned 11 two days ago, we celebrated and he was so happy. I'm 18 now and we basically grew up together and of course have become attached. Yesterday my father went for a daily walk with him and a... | my dog got attacked and had three big bites and the vet said if he were a smaller dog he would be dead. I'm worried my dog is going to lose its spleen and I'm not ready to say goodbye. | my dog got attacked by another dog and has three bite wounds and the vet says large dogs would be dead if the wound got bigger. I'm scared of losing my dog if I say goodbye. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My close friend [both 20F] is getting married abroad but I don't want to go. Am I being selfish?
POST: We've known each other since teenagers and been through a lot together. She recently got engaged and is planning on having her wedding in Morocco because that's where her family (a... | My close friend (in)famous getting married abroad and has cheated multiple times. She doesn't plan on telling her fiance but I do disapprove. I want her wedding to be lovely but don't want to fly and waste money. Am I being selfish? | My close frien(20) has recently engaged abroad and is planning on spending her wedding there. She has been having racist and sexualised marriage proposals shouted at her throughout, including one where a stranger took a picture of her with a middle finger in the air. She says she will stand up for herself against this... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [F21] feel frustrated with my boyfriend's [M24] laziness. Am I justified?
POST: I [F21] have been with my boyfriend [M24] for 2 years, lived with him for one year. Maybe it's just because of finals, but I've been feeling increasingly stressed about life over the past few months and... | I've felt increasingly stressed over life while with my boyfriend, and he doesn't do much about housework, or help pay bills, but still. Feels like he's only concerned with what he has to do. It's not like he never does anything, but still. It would have been nice if he wanted to help me. | My boyfriend [M24] at times can be non-responsive when faced with many demands in life. I feel like he's more concerned with playing video games or just watching TV than actually doing anything useful with my life. How do I feel about his laziness?
Have any of you been with your boyfriend long enough to experience hi... |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Alright Reddit, What is the worst/craziest thing you've ever done at a party?
POST: I only think it is fair I should begin.
So growing up in a small town everybody knows everybody but once in awhile we got a rare chance to go to these massive house parties out in the country. These part... | I pee while pass out at a party and smell rank pee coming from everywhere. I run into a dark room where I think a bathroom is and pee turns out to smell like piss. | At a house party when a kid pissing brings up a horrible smelling smell and people start saying who pissed on the furnance. |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I just saw my ex boyfriend for the first time in a year.
POST: We had an extremely emotionally intense relationship. Together for 2 years, lived together for the second year. We didn't have a crazy break up, we were both so numb and exhausted that we just said this is it and kind of d... | had an emotionally intense relationship that just ended. I went to ex boyfriend's place where we hugged and had a long talk. Now I'm more aware than ever that it probably won't work. Part of me misses ex but more aware now that I don't think I'm equipped to bring it on myself. | Ex had emotionally intense relationship which eventually drifted apart. We've both seen each other recently and had very brief hugs and held hands. Now I want to try to go ahead and have a relationship again without jumping into anger/depression/anxiety. Part of me misses the old love affair. Part of me realizes t... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I'm [25 M] seeing this Girl [24F] for a month, doesn't do oral..
POST: Throwaway for obvious reasons.
Now I've posted here because no, I haven't spoken to her about this and would like some advice.
Been seeing this girl, let's call her Stacey, for about a month or so. She's attract... | Been seeing a female has been well but sex is sometime put off by lack of down on oral, wonder if I talk to her about it respectfully? | I'm seeing a great girl that has all the right stuff for a relationship (attractive, respectful job, etc.), however, we've had sex once each and she's not down on me going down on but I'm wondering how to go about respectfully talking to her about it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[20F] and ex[24M] he got married, had a baby, but still wont leave me alone. Should I tell his wife?
POST: I was gonna use a throwaway but fuck it. About 15 months ago I started talking to a guy and we went on ONE date. The whole "relationship" lasted only 1 month. Well, he would o... | Ex would only talk to me in baby talk and marriage related stuff just happened about a month ago, and he got a little girl pregnant immediately afterwards. Should I reveal all this to his wife? | Ex would only talk to me in baby talk and would propose to me after 1 month relationship.Later he gets a baby girl and shes on the verge of losing her dad. I would feel horrible should I ever tell his wife. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[21F] and my boyfriend of a year [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I don't know how to handle it
POST: Me and my boyfriend have been friends for four years and dating for a year, the past year has been one of the best years of my life. We don't fight we co... | Been dating for one year, are LDRs going sour distance will ruin the relationship, if we separate should we stay or should we go? | I [21F] and my boyfriend [21M] are starting to face a long distance relationship and I [from school] am moving away the distance will damage our relationship and I'm not sure if separating is the right thing to do because we have only been dating for one year. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [25 F] think that the guy I've been seeing for a couple months [39 M] is hiding a smoking habit from me.
POST: Short backstory: I've known him for about 4.5 years, he got divorced last year, we've been seeing each other for about two months. As long as I've known him I've never see... | I know in the grand scheme of things that a guy who smokes doesn't hide it from me, but I haven't seen it with my own eyes so I can't be 100% sure. Do I bring it up? Do I just ignore it for now and see if it even becomes an issue? Sorry for my /r/relationships equivalent of a first world problem! | I know he smokes, have seen a pack of cigarettes there when he's been out drinking, though I haven't suspected anything yet, and I'm not sure if the issue will become an issue. If it does, do I bring it up or ignore it? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me (22F) and my boyfriend (22M) of 5 years are taking a break....but we still live together in seperate rooms. This feels weird. How can we make this break work?
POST: I posted this about a week ago for anyone that wants to read a more detailed version of why we went on a break:
We... | Ex and I are on a break, but we keep our SOs (all 5 of us) together in seperate rooms. Is it ok for us to fall in love with eachother again, or does this break need to be longer than 1 month? | We have a lease until August 2015 with the aim of taking a 1-month break. We are wanting to make sure our relationship is healthy enough to continue and want our living arrangement to be simple, clean and relaxed. What kind of rules/guidelines do you have for taking a 1-month break? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I *Might* be a father again. How am I supposed to handle this? [25M]
POST: I had a fling for about a month with a girl back in September. We had unprotected sex but I pulled out.... which I know isn't perfect. Yesterday, she called me and wanted to talk. Apparently she is pregnant an... | I had a casual fling with a sometimes SB (sexting) but pulled out so I might be a father for a 20/f she's carrying. What do I need to do if she's going to change her mind and want to keep the baby? I'm also married so I guess my options are easier said than done. | I had a sexual relationship with someone that could have resulted in an abortion. She calls me marriage guy that she would like to have a baby with. She wants me to be the father but doesn't seem very interested in being one. She doesn't seem interested in being the mother. She doesn't seem interested in being a good ... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [19M] want to ask my coworker [??F] out but I never get an opening. Need suggestions..
POST: I work in retail with someone who I seem to have a good chemistry with and I think she would agree if I were to ask her, but the problem is that we never have a moment where I can do that.
... | My coworker liked working with this person but we never get a momentary connection and we never really interact outside of work. Is it proper from a dating standpoint to ask her out if we could see if she'd be interested in seeing a movie or something in front of coworkers? | I work with a gal who I like and chemistry with, but we never really have a moment where I pass an opportunity to ask her out in front of coworkers if she would say yes. I want to pass at least a few a the opinions that you guys have given me but as far as I know she doesnt like anyone around. Responding to this would... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (22/F) think I have feelings for (25/M). Can't tell if it's mutual (x-post from r/wemetonline)
POST: Heyooo,
So, I met this guy online on a non-dating website 6 months ago. We started talking every day, we've video chatted a few times, and we've exchanged literally thousands of me... | Met 6 months guy online talked everyday and we agreed to meet in the UK for 2 in the near future. Now I have feelings for him and he was hinting at it. He's given me a few compliments but is not sure if this is more than platonic. What do you think? How can I tell if it is and if there are signs there are no? | Ex (online dating) may have had some kind feelings for me (traveling to see him) 6 months in and started talking every day now. I don't know if it's just platonic or could have more. If only signs on his end are mutual, what do you think? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I [28 M] suspect my Wife [29 F] of 2 years may be cheating. Need advice.
POST: My wife and I have been growing apart lately (lack of intimacy for about 3 months) and I've noticed a couple strange things that I want some unbiased opinions on.
She goes to the gym 5 days a week for a ... | Wife goes to gym 5 days a week, has lots of social interactions with it and occasionally looks up places to go that seem suspicious to me. I have no proof but doubt it's all completely innocent. I want to know. | Wife going to gym 5 days a week goes to mile markers during logging in she also uses an open source text message GPS program. Is it safe to think she may be cheating? What would be the worst thing that could happen to our marriage? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [26 M] with my ex [25 F] broke up and I feel guilty and sad since I initiated it
POST: We had been dating for about six months and things were going reasonably well. I liked her and she liked me. I'd say there wasn't a very intense passion to the relationship, but there was defini... | Ex was | Ex of |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Frustrated with these people...
POST: So, here's the gist of the situation. Got a girl, who broke with a boy, decided she hated him, then got back together with said boy after about 2 weeks, when he came crawling back.
The girl and I are in a close relationship, and she tried to hid... | girl who broke-up with boy comes back and gets back together with him. His rep has come back to that she hated him. She had a emotional break up with last time. She had the guy cheat on her before coming back to her. She says she will deal with it. I'm frustrated. What do? | Had a girl break up with guy but got him back 2 weeks later, we're frustrate about certain things and she acts like we don't care. She claims to have "deal with it" and she's being callous. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My gf wants an explenation from me [Both 24]
POST: This is a fight we had 2 times before, it's hard on our relationship, and if she doesn't get an explenation that it isn't going to happen anymore it's the end. Relationship of 2,5 years.
We are 2 outgoing people, we do alot of fun t... | My gf is both outgoing anddrunk all the time, when i have to work she's busy, we fight alot, she says she's not allowed to touch a drink when im around. In my mind i see a negative quality and explode. what's going on? | my gf is swings drinking alot, she's been complaining that when i'm around she's only able to touch a drink once in 7 days, we fight over boundaries (especially night time), she calls me mean names, i want to end the relationship, cause i get the double feeling. |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: Isn't it a matter of faith that we are not being lied to about the outcome of a national election? Because honestly, they can claim that *anyone* won, and none of us could say a thing about it.
POST: I understand that this is the only system we have right now, but is it not correct that ... | I understand that the outcome of an election can have no correlation to how people actually voted, and that we, the millions of individuals who voted, have no real recourse for voicing our complaints. Is this not true? | Is it wrong for an election outcome to have no relationship to how its been predicted to us, and why? Is it not faith-based that we can't know that the outcome REALLY WAS what we were told to us? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [24 M] with my BF [27 M]: His housemate wants me to pay rent and bills just for staying there.
POST: I don't think I'm being unreasonable by asking WTF kind of backwards thinking is this:
*I've been with my boyfriend almost 18 months.
*I stay at his house (and h... | My BF's housemate is asking if I'll pay rent and bills if I stay at his house until he hires another - I do NOT do ANYTHING that is abusive to our relationship, but I don't think this is unreasonable and I would like more clarity on what is actually happening. | My BF's housemate/roommate wants me to pay rent and bills for staying at his house - IF I don't abuse it. If I do stay more then that I expect to pay for utilities and such, but if I don't use much electricity or laundry etc then I don't think it really bothers him and he says no. I'm really confused and feel kind o... |
SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps
TITLE: So I got dumped by my best friend and all I want is to talk to him about, how do I get away from this circle jerk that is us?
POST: We have been best friends for 3 years, friends is such a stupid concept when it comes to boys and girls though, at least for us. Anyways, he broke up with me... | My best friend dumped me, I have all the signs his feelings were gone and now he is closed off and scared. How do I get over him and go back to being myself? | Best friend dumped me, known him for years, where our issues go and I want to know what to do from here, he is my best friend. He isn't really seeing anyone right now, scared of hurting family. Do I stay or go? |
SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit
TITLE: I want to throw a great party, Reddit. What are some special things that I can do to make this happen?
POST: Alright, so my 19th birthday is next Friday. I live in a college town, renting a house alone for the summer, and I want to throw a great party. I have invited friends from both sc... | My 19th birthday is coming up, and I want a great party. How can I make sure that everyone mingles, keeps all rules and regulations in check, and doesn't become lame? | My birthday is coming up, and I'm looking to throw a nice party. But I'm having a hard time finding what else can be done to make sure that everyone has a good time. Should I rent and party like crazy, or try to find other ways to do it right? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Why do I [23f], who has an amazing family and loving friends with a good life, hate myself? And how can I get past it?
POST: So this is me... I have a loving and amazing family. I have many loving friends. I have a great social life. It is easy for me to get the guy I want. I've just... | I have loving,MMF, and easy relationship, but when men do leave me, I feel like every guy will leave me. I hate myself most when I don't like myself. I have no reason to hate myself. I'm a good person. What gives? | I have a loving life and amazing social circles and yet have this inner hateful self that will not come to terms with the fact that a guy may abandon me. I hate myself, I don't know why. I am 23. I guess what I am asking is if you could relate/help out. I |
SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest
TITLE: I'm worried.
POST: I'm incredibly worried about my younger cousins; I have been for some time, but tonight it's different. Today their father killed himself. Their parents have been separated for some time, and my cousins have been living with their mom and grandma out in the country fo... | My 12 year old younger female cousin has serious mental health issues, and struggles with expressing them. She's intensely emotional. She was diagnosed with ADHD and depression. She's being medicated for it. Is there anything I can do? | My younger cousins from very emotionally unstable genetic strain has severely suffered mental health issues for years. The older one has severe ADHD and depression. She's recently expressed deep sadness and abandonment issues. She's in therapy. I'm wondering if there's anything I can do or try to do to help. |
SUBREDDIT: r/tifu
TITLE: TIFU by scaring the shit out of my friends
POST: So this happened just today. We're in highschool and me and my three friends (lets call them Bob, Steven and Tong) were eating lunch and chilling. We were making fun of Bob as we usually do and then Tong brings up the topic of the Charlie, Char... | A panel game scared my friends and I to 'Yes' instead of 'No' when we tried it, even though it only says 'Yes' once. | Told a Charlie game inspired by the pencil horror game Tong brought up, Bob was scared by this, so we all tried to scare the shit out of him, and said No to said game three times, and accidentally said Yes when we meant to No. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: I (20F) am still good friends with my ex (25M). We're both in a relationship, but last night he started trying to sext me. What should I do?
POST: We've been friends since we broke up almost 3 years ago and this is the first time he's tried anything like this. I told him that I wasn'... | My ex was out showing attraction towards me and sexting me. I told him its wrong and he still put intentions behind it. I don't want to ruin friendship because of this. I don't want to abuse feelings. What else should I do? | Ex is "honeysharing" with some mass messaging intentions on my screen while we've been good friends. He complimented me and went to bed and its the first time he's done anything remotely like this. How should I handle this? Should I still be friendly? Or is this disrespectful? |
SUBREDDIT: r/Advice
TITLE: I think I suck at my job.
POST: Now I make mistakes sometimes. Usually fine detail mistakes, like a typo in an important place. Or not knowing that someone put training equipment on a truck and I dispatch it on a job. I would say I could tack up one good mistake per month working.
I just c... | I think I suck at my job. I make mistakes. I dont like detail oriented work. What is a reasonable expectation for an employee with my background? is human error okay? is detail oriented work okay? | I think human error can/will happen when doing a detailed job. I am good at other things like sales, logistics and customer service. Do I expect errors to be okay for detail work? Is human error ok for this job? I want to know what a reasonable standard is. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My [30 F] boyfriend [25 M] of 14 months, we are considering moving in together in a home that I own. What's the best way to split expenses?
POST: My boyfriend and I are discussing moving in together in the fall when his lease is up. We've been together for just over a year.
We both ... | my boyfriend is considering a move to live with in a rented house next year that I built my share of. He's already put down $60K to buy the house so expect we'll split expenses 50/50. What's the best way to do it? | Boyfriend and I are considering moving in together in the fall when his lease is up with housing association having an expectation that we would split monthly expenses (household, utilities, and so on). Is it fair for me to put down my own money (or someone else's) and expect him to pay for the house with shared expen... |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me[19M] pissed off with my [19F] over sickness (long term relationship)
POST: So to keep it as brief as possible I have been dating my SO for coming up 5 years now, every things been great yadayada.
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Two weeks ago I came down with viral meningitis and was administered to hospital ... | Meningitis GF of 5 years dismisses to have spinal headache related to lumbar puncture which has bugged me during relationship but didn't visit me. Do I have a right to be angry? | Meningitis GF of 5 years has had case of/symptoms related to spinal puncture that has been bugging me for 2 weeks now. Has anyone had a similar relationship come to an end that has been dealing with this situation? |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Am I being ridiculous for being upset that my boyfriend [30M] would rather bring family (that he is not close to) to his graduation rather than me [28F]?
POST: Some background: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. We attend different school... | My bf only has 6 tickets for his graduation that he says he wants me to get one for the heart of the matter is his relationship with family. I don't feel taken for it though. Am I wrong for being hurt? | my boyfriend (in long distance relationship) has only had access to certain family members (that he isn't close to) that he plans on attending his graduation from. I don't get a ticket and I feel like it hurts to not get one for someone I love to come to my graduation. |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: My boyfriend (age 22) of 5 months can't handle how many sexual partners I (female - age 23) have had.
POST: I've been with 29 other people, and he brings it up almost every day. I've also had a threesome, which he talks about constantly. He feels like he can't please me sexually (eve... | My boyfriend (22) of 5 months shows almost no sexual desire for me (unless we are having a threesome or having sex) and he talks about my past sexual partners constantly. I am not sure | After having the most amazing sex life, loving relationship with boyfriend for 5 months, his constant and extreme sexual jealousy and insecurity messes with how much we enjoy each other's company and the type of sex we have |
SUBREDDIT: r/relationships
TITLE: Me [22 M] and my best friend [22F] got into a relationship - I need help
POST: We have been best friends since high school, we talked about everything and everybody and always had a good time together. She was the perfect "best friend", someone who would stay with you, the rest of yo... | Best female friend of mine from high school got in to a relationship with, now we both wish to stay friends, but I fear we will seperate. Is there a possibility for us to stay? Can we somehow manage to stay friends? | Fired up long time best friend got in love with me, I would loose her if I ended the relationship already having her as my life partner. Is it possible to stay as friends? Also does anybody have any experience with any relationship advice? |
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