yeppp i get wanting to take care of someone but you should both be functional human beings that have their own lives + friends. I agree because sometimes i fall into the mindest of fixing someone
it's okay to help and support others. it's a great thing to do since u'll spread wisdom and do good stuff for others + it'll make u feel good about yourself. but yes; fully focusing on the other person and their needs at ALL TIMES will only make things worse