the ideal person u would want in a relationship is someone who cares about you and who cares about themselves in like a balanced way . those people are very emotionally intelligent, and will speak up for their needs without hurting you. + they'd make sure ur needs are taken care of too
yes! communication is so important + being with someone whos mentally healthy. A lot of people say they want a "mentally ill" partner but you shouldnt be trying to fix someone you're with