Its a patient technique tho, you find a girl thats just been broken up or hurt, bonus points if she was cheated on, you then become the sweetest person to her, you become like her therapist almost and then eventually take it to the next level, you give 110 percent for the first 6 months and then you start arguing a lot, you then shift the blame and make her feel bad, and as soon as the argument is done you become that sweet person again until she becomes addicted to the person you were making it impossible for her to leave cause shes in love with the comfort you gave her
thats what the last guy i talked to did to me and i ended up blocking him, think u gotta rework that technique vro