No. 3 years would be 17 to me. Bring it up to early 20s
Fantasies and behaviors indicative of pe do philia refer to attraction to children (boys or girls) of pre-adolescent age (under 12). The pe do phile must also be at least 16 years old and at least 4 years older than the child. Although pe do philia affects both se xes, the vast majority of pe dop hiles are men