He was serious... He expected me to change after marriage. He wasn't forceful because we weren't married. I can go back but I don't know if that would be the right choice. Would it be good for me or not, I don't know. Dunno anything what is right and wrong. Which path should I choose then worries me.
That's a if he already started this and you allow this behavior it will be to deep for you to get out later he'll have you by your neck it's best you stand your ground as couple and tell him you dislike such things and if he continues end the marriage and don't be scared.