well dang dawg. You sound like the problem you have here is you wanna love the right person but you find yourself loving the wrong person. Even if you know it is not gonna work. Correct me if I'm wrong on this guess right now.
I don't think I do it on purpose it just happens to be those types of people that i fall in love with. So maybe yes I am the problem and it's my fault. Maybe I'm just misplacing my love to the wrong people.